instead of “I love you no matter what sexuality/race/gender you are!”
try “I love you and will celebrate your identity with you!”
bell hooks (via feministquotes)
I think cishet people get angry when they are labeled as cishet because they aren’t used to having to be labeled. They are shocked and upset that an increasing amount of people no longer refer to cishet people as “normal,” because those people have realized that no sexual orientation or gender identity is the supreme normal way to be.
(also see: people who put white in scare quotes)